🌱HOW DO I HELP MY ADULT CHILD?

Good morning, dear reader; many books explain how to help a child when they are still young, but:

HOW DO I HELP MY ADULT CHILD?

PARENTS ARE PARENTS FOR LIFE, even beyond death.

This means they continue to love, help, and guide their children whenever needed, throughout life and even after.

Parents do not have permission to intervene when their children have chosen the life they want. For example, a child who has decided not to have a partner.

If the children’s failures depend on something before them, regardless of their decisions, parents can help by working through the constellation of everything that came before. For example, a child who wants a partner but cannot find one…

Besides that, the greatest strength parents give their children is to honor and be grateful for their children's destiny.

Giving money, in general, takes away their strength.

Giving them work makes them dependent…


Receive a hug from the heart and remember to share.

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