🧑‍🤝‍🧑SIBLINGS

Good morning, dear reader; in today’s article, I want to talk to you about the relationship between siblings...

DO YOU KNOW WHAT’S THE SADDEST THING ABOUT A SIBLING?

It’s that after everything you’ve lived through with them—the good and the bad, the worst moments and the best—after all of that, you end up completely forgetting about your brother or sister. Or worse, you spend the rest of your life angry at them, holding a grudge… probably over some silly thing that happened, something you think they did that you didn’t like. Seriously? Is that going to be your excuse?

Are you some flawless, innocent dove without faults?

Do you really believe your pride is worth more than your sibling’s love?
Do you think arrogance is greater than forgiveness?
Do you believe hate is stronger than love?

If you think so, and your ego is sky-high, believe me—you’re killing your brother or sister emotionally with your rejection. And there’s nothing more painful than feeling rejected, humiliated, unvalued, disrespected, unloved… or worse, forgotten by your own family.

Have you forgotten that when you were kids, you and your sibling shared the same clothes because there wasn’t money for new ones?

You shared the same plate of food because Mom and Dad were doing their best to get by. And even through tough times, when the whole family was struggling, it affected both you and your sibling. You looked out for each other, wiped away their tears when they got hurt. You spent nights of sadness and loneliness together—those long, endless nights of pain—always holding on, always fighting for a new day, trying to live with joy and strength.

And now that you’re grown, with your own family, you forget them? You stop talking to them and hold a grudge for some mistake they made?

And worse, if your current partner talks badly about your family—where the hell is your character? Where the hell is your personality, your backbone, to stand up for your family?
Believe me, friend, a partner who speaks poorly about your family is a jealous person who only cares about their own well-being—not your family’s happiness. That’s not someone worth keeping around. A partner who truly loves you will always encourage you to stay close to your family, support you, and remind you never to forget where you come from.

So I ask you, friend:
Will you have the courage to look your brother or sister in the eyes again and tell them how much you love them, and how much it hurt to be apart?

Set your pride aside. Hug them. Put forgiveness on the table so that later you can feast on happiness and love, which will fill your soul. To love is to care above all else—and that’s where happiness lives.

Sending you a heartfelt hug, and don’t forget to share this.

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